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2017 Goals + Year in Review

So, 2017. What a year. Someone I know took to describing herself in “Trump-adjusted terms” all year, which is to say: overlaying everything was a thick layer of misery, anxiety, and anger. I caught up with a friend recently who confessed to me that she had spent last January having severe anxiety attacks, when she’d never experienced them before. My year was much the same.

Even without the threat of imminent nuclear devastation and/or spiraling into a dictatorship run by some of the worst human beings on earth (yes, I’m including the fuckfaces who voted for this in that group), 2017 was not my best year.

Tristan got really sick, and right on the heels of that, my dog Arya got really sick. I struggled with finances all year; I’d been on a decent but not great track before that, and then laying out thousands of dollars for that dealt me a blow from which I have just barely recovered. Last week, my car went off a road in a snow squall and spent a week at a body shop, maxing out its deductible. I struggled with an escalating work load at the day job, and felt really guilty for not getting enough done on the house.

That said, some good things happened. I loved writing the Black Stallion review series, and you all seemed to really enjoy reading them! I finally got Tristan out to a dressage show, though never recapped it. When I rode, it went pretty darn well. I got to meet a lot of horse bloggers – in Austin, in Nashville, and Boston. I solidified other friendships I’ve made through horses and blogging, emailing and texting for ideas and advice and fun. I switched the blog over to its own domain, a goal several years in contemplation and several months in execution.

One of the best things was one of the most surprising and rewarding, which was that after many months of planning and thinking (shout out to everyone who tests things for me!) I opened the Etsy shop, which did way better than I expected. After taking a short break for the holidays, I’m back at work today making things to stock it, and I have new products coming soon.

So, with that rambling recap over, I’ll do one last quick goals update.

Horse Goals – original post here

1. Put hands on my horse 5x a week – Some weeks yes. More often than not, no. 😦
2. Be less perfunctory – This was a shitty goal, but
3. Aim toward dressage schooling shows
4. Take more lessons – I started strong and then failed on the back end. Thanks, vet bills.
5. Horse-specific income stream / funding emergency fund –
The Etsy shop will be restocked today. Though it may not look like I made much progress on Tristan’s savings, there was an ebb and flow and I was able to pay for new shoes, two vet visits, and some new equipment and still added to savings in the last few months, so that number actually represents success.
Emergency fund: $4,350/$15,000
Tristan’s savings: $710/$1,500
6. Do more thoughtful work – Terrible goal, past me.
7. Get more media – Started off ok, floundered in the middle of the year, picked up at the end.

Life Goals – original post here

1. Pay off car – DONE!
2. Read 75 books – DONE!
3. Revive history blogs – No. I think I learned through this year that this needs to lay fallow until I feel a real need to pick it up.
4. Do better about food – I did really well until the very last week of the year, so overall this was a huge success. Back at it today.
5. Decorate the house – Nope. I’m not sure I hung anything on the walls at all. Sigh.

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2018 Goals Post

Previously, I explored a new framework for setting goals. I looked at what three areas of my life would be in five years if everything went well, and laid that out. Here, I’ll set the first signposts on that five year journey: measurable, time-specific goals for 2018.

Horse Goals

1. Take 6 lessons through the year.
2. Ride 3 new-to-me horses.
3. Research 3 different retirement situations.
4. Write retirement budget for Tristan.
5. Reach goals for horse-specific income stream. (Primarily through Etsy shop.)
Stretch: 6. Read and review 12 books about riding on the blog.

Financial Goals

1. Fully fund Tristan’s savings account (to $1,500)
2. 50% fund my overall emergency fund savings account (to $7,500)
3. Track every purchase made in 2018.
4. Create 30 day wait list for any purchase over $25 (excluding groceries & emergencies).
5. Pay off 50% of energy improvement debt.
6. Stretch: 75% fund my overall emergency fund savings account (to $11,250)

House Goals

1. Finish dining room (finish wallpaper, skimcoat lower half, plaster upper half, paint).
2. Finish garage in basement (finish strapping, put up drywall, plaster drywall, paint floor, clean out).
3. Finish upstairs guest bedroom (strip wallpaper, plaster, deal with ceiling, repaint).
4. Develop plan & budget for preserving mud room mural.
5. Build second raised bed, start seedlings indoors, can/process results of garden.
6. Stretch: Finish breakfast nook room (strip wallpaper, plaster, figure out heating, repaint)

I’ll do monthly update posts much as I did last year, and in 2018, I am going to go ahead with my Finance Fridays plan, of posting monthly about some kind of financial horse goal for people to share along in.

I would like very much for this year to go better than the last.

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Holiday Baking: Send Me Your Recipes + My Favorites

I know, this is a horse blog. But it’s -7 outside right now, people. I went to the barn yesterday to bring Tristan’s second heavy blanket (after waking up in the middle of the night, remembering it was still in my basement awaiting washing, and convincing myself he was going to freeze to death because I am a bad horse mom, thanks brain). I petted him on the nose. Then I went back inside somewhere warm, because NOPE.

So anyway. I digress. It’s the most wonderful baking time of the year! Ingredients are on sale, keeping the oven on all day serves dual duty, and people are happy to eat sugary, floury, delicious things.

I thought I’d list a few of my favorite recipes and a few of my favorite tools to use for baking. I’d love to hear your favorites, too!

First, cookies.

Brownie Roll Out Cookies from Smitten Kitchen
These are a perfect chocolate cookie. They are intensely chocolatey, fudgy, easy to make, and they last for days. They hold up to frosting – they are not too sweet – and make perfect ice cream sandwich cookies. This winter, I’m considering adding in a little mint extract to the dough and some crushed peppermints to the top. If you’re like me, and you hate the idea of rolling out dough because who has time for that, let me tell you: these cookies are worth it.

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Nestle Tollhouse Chocolate Chip Cookies from the back of the package
The original. I make these all the time. ALL the time. I actually use a recipe that my grandmother pretended was invented just for me back when she was teaching me to bake – in the picture above. I bake up about half of them, and then I put the other half in these genius freezer cookie dough storage trays. Then I can either just eat balls of cookie dough (in summer) or cook up 2-3 cookies in the toaster oven (in winter). Lately, I’ve been baking them with these Snickers baking bites. I chop them up and the half-melt and caramelize and my husband (who generally does not eat the things I bake) is obsessed with them.

Pumpkin Chocolate Chip Cranberry Oatmeal Cookies
I know, they sound really complicated, but they really aren’t, but wow do they pack a lot of awesome into one cookie. These are another go-to because I always have the ingredients on hand, and they’re a fun one to bring to parties. They’re also a good Thanksgiving cookie. They are easier to make than you think, have a great flavor profile, and people are always impressed with them. I make a lot of things with dried cranberries, because a) I hate raisins, raisins are the devil and b) every year for Christmas my parents get me a humongous bag of Ocean Spray dried cranberries.

Okay, on to other things.

English Muffin Toasting Bread from King Arthur Flour
Even if you think you can’t make yeasted bread, you can make this. It’s so, so easy and it makes the best toast OF ALL TIME. It crisps up but is still moist in the center. It takes, like, an hour to make, so you can start this first thing in the morning and have fresh bread for breakfast. It’s the recipe I make when I need bread NOW. (I bake most of our bread, I’m that snob.) I have a 40 year old KitchenAid stand mixer that I use to make this recipe: there’s not even any hands-on kneading.

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No Knead Bread from the New York Times
Once upon a time I could not make yeasted bread. I decided I wanted to learn, and this was my first success. You cannot screw this recipe up. It does require slightly specialized tools, but it is so damn foolproof, and it makes the most beautiful, wonderful loaf of bread. I almost always have some rising in a dough bucket on the counter. (Or, um, multiple dough buckets. Don’t judge.) For the dutch oven, I have a Cuisinart but I secretly lust after a Le Creuset.

St. Lucia Buns from Paul Hollywood
Okay. Confession time. I have made St. Lucia buns probably a half dozen times, but never successfully. I don’t know what it is. It’s some kind of mental block. My husband’s family is Swedish, so I have tried mightily. But! This recipe comes from the Great British Bake Off, and I fully intend on spending some quality time watching the episode in which they show the process, then committing myself to it until I get it right. This is the year, people. (Next year, brioche, which I also have yet to do well.)

Those are all recipe staples of my holiday – and year round baking, really. Next: kitchen tools.

Half Sheet Pans + Silicone Baking Mats
These are now my staples for all sheet baking – cookies, shaped breads, you name it. I am obsessed with them. I’ve used a lot of cookie sheets over the years and I now use these constantly. I also love the silicone lining. No more sticking, quick and easy cleaning, and they crisp the bottom of things beautifully. They’re perfect for doing things like french fries or cubed potatoes for that reason, too.

PS – the ones I linked to are USA Pans which is a company that is getting ALL my money lately; I am slowly converting all the things in my life to their products. I have almost all their sauce pans now and they are wonderful. Like All Clad but less expensive, American-made, and not as fussy.

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Bowl Scraping Attachment for Kitchen Aid Mixer
Once you start using this, you will never go back. It’s like a miracle. You don’t have to stop the stupid mixer every five minutes and scrape things down into the bowl. It just…happens.

Ice Cream Style Cookie Scoops
Scooping out cookie dough is clearly the worst part of making cookies. It’s tedious and wasteful. I bought my first of these cookie scoops probably about eight years ago and now I have them in ALL the sizes. They’re great for portion control, shaping, efficiency, speed, and neatness. No more using your fingers to get dough out of a spoon. Just squeeze and drop and every so often rinse them with hot water. Then keep going. I love them so much.

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2018 Secret Santa!

You guys. YOU GUYS.

Look what came in the mail for me!

Does this mean I’m one of the cool kids now?

THANK YOU SO MUCH to Kate from The Midwestern Eventer! Also: I am simultaneously creeped out and impressed that you sent me the exact belt I had picked up and sighed over at Equine Affaire a few weeks ago. How on earth?! Please share your secrets, I have some difficult people to shop for this Christmas!

I know loads of you have C4 belts already, but this is my first and I love it.

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Small Business Saturday Roundup

First, I would be remiss if I did not link to my own shop, Bel Joeor Metier. Looking for a great barn gift for the holidays? All saddle covers are 10% off, and everything else is 10% off with the code OPENING2017.

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Small Business Saturday Roundup

Arias Whips – wholly customized racing and eventing whips, made by a former jockey (Recommended by  non-blogging friend.)

The Herbal Horse – “Harley and I wouldn’t survive without “Be Calm” and I love the coat conditioner spray for taming blanket static in the winter.” (Recommended by EquiNovice)

Uniquely Equine – customized halters (Recommended by Viva Carlos)

Galloping Graphics – “Simple, affordable, customized graphics. They’ve really broadened their scope in the past couple of years and everything they produce is really cute.” (Recommended by The Owls Approve)

Because Pony Holiday Cards – adorable corgi and Haflinger themed images. (Recommended by me)

The Artful Equine – lovely housewares, in particular the dish towels (Recommended by a non-blogging friend.)

Relatively Stable – monograms & custom stickers (Recommended by Viva Carlos)

Dark Jewel Designs – gorgeous, customized browbands (Recommended by Clover Ledge Farm)

Dapplebay – clever equestrian apparel (Recommended by non-blogging friend.)

Arctic Horse Gear – riding skirts for all weather! (Recommended by Because Pony.)

The Printable Pony – organizing essentials and clever patterns (Recommended by loads of you.)

Gray & Company Design – all sorts of really lovely custom products (Recommended by Viva Carlos)

Last but not least, I would be remiss if I did not link to this: 2017 Black Friday Sales from The $900 Facebook Pony. Many of the sales here are from small businesses.

Happy shopping!

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House Post: Sometimes, Home Ownership is the Worst

So, a couple of weeks ago we had this big huge storm. It wreaked havoc throughout northern New England; some record high number of people were without power. We lost it for about 48 hours.

It was very exciting, really. I have not that many complaints; loads of people were without power for far longer, and I had other resources to make food. The fridge and new chest freezer came through fine, and it wasn’t really cold yet so we didn’t miss the heat.

However.

We did also have two trees come down in our backyard. One was long dead. The other was mostly still alive. Both fell in nearly the perfect way so as not to cause damage, and only be frustrating.

One tree is obvious. The second is a bit tough to see in this picture, but you can see it leaning against the back fence if you follow the fenceline to about the center of the picture. Directly behind that fenceline is a steep slope, at the base of which is the tree.

Earlier this week, a friend stopped by with his chainsaw and took down the leaning tree so as to relieve pressure on the fence.

 

So then we had two trees in the backyard more fully than before.

Little brindle mutt for scale.

Then, yesterday, while I was at work staying warm and cozy and eating leftover Halloween candy, the husband took apart the trees.

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And, you know what? We got lucky. There was no real damage. The dead tree could have come down right on our neighbor’s house, and it’s been on my mind to get rid of. Everything worked out about as well as it possibly could have.

But seriously, what a pain in the ass, and a not-insignificant chunk of time spent taking care of this that would have been better spent on other things! Sometimes houses are dumb.

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2pointober spoils!

The prizes are here!

I am so easily pleased, you guys. I made goofy happy faces at the box and showed it to everyone in the tack room. Then, of course, immediately put the saddle pad on Tris for a Sunday afternoon road hack. He picked up a happy big trot and maintained it without any urging. I’m declaring it a magic saddle pad!

Huge, huge thanks to PONY’TUDE and ‘Fraidy Cat Eventing for hosting the contest this year!

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Would you take out a loan to buy a horse?

Finances are very much on my mind lately (I have a horse: when aren’t they?), especially after spending yesterday at Equine Affaire and seeing loads of lovely, expensive horses for sale.

I’m going to assume that if you’re a horse person you have gone into debt for something at some point. Maybe for something good, like a new truck or trailer or even a farm. Maybe for something bad, like unexpected vet bills or a new saddle that had to happen sooner rather than later. I shelled out $3k+ in vet bills this summer: I hear you.

In addition to finances, I’ve also devoted a lot of time to thinking about what my next horse will be like. Don’t worry – Tristan is doing great, and not going anywhere. But he’s 22, and I’m an obsessive planner. I have some really specific things that I want, and those things are probably not going to be cheap.

I paid $150 for Tristan. $50 of that was a Christmas gift from my family. I often joke that literally everything about him – from his bridle to one set of shoes to my helmet – has cost more than he did.

I will almost certainly not be going that route with my next horse.

So, I ask you:

Would you ever go into debt to buy a horse? Take out a personal bank loan? Pay a broker in installments? Jointly purchase with a trainer and pay back over time? HAVE you ever done this?

I’m genuinely curious. Please let me know if you would, and if so, what the circumstances would be. Or if you have done it, how did it work and did it work out?

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2pointober Glory!

I’m stupid pleased with myself this year, guys.

Last year I did ok; with a baseline of 47 seconds, my final time was 5:12 and I was really sweating it to get that out. I started the month off with a better general fitness but sucked hard at my riding goals by the end of the month and did not cover myself in glory at the finish line.

In my defense, according to all my Facebook memories it had started snowing by the third week in October last year, and this year I have a tomato plant trying real hard to bud out right now.

SO. This year, my baseline was worse, at 0:25. That stung. I thought I’d been doing ok with my overall riding fitness, but nope.

I attacked that goal with a vengeance. I committed to practicing every day, every ride. I practiced in my jump saddle. I practiced in my dressage saddle. I rode it in the walk and trot and canter, inside and outside, uphill and down, in all three rings at the farm.

In the last 10 days, I have had to really knuckle down to get my times in, because that early practice faded when I ran into several very long days at work and lost the will to do pretty much anything.

But this story has a happy ending!

Week 1: 0:25
Week 2: 3:32
Week 3: 5:35
Week 4: 8:12

Aaaaaand…

I am stupid pleased with my progress and really proud of sticking to it. I actually wrote most of this post before finding out that I won. I was just that happy to have improved so much. Getting Reserve Champion was the icing on the cake.

And now?

No-Stirrup November, my favorite! (Yes, really!)